found the problem after tracing down what disabled aero visual effects,
it was the "Intel HD graphics 4000" update(March2013) that was not compatable with wddm
i traced down what was req for aero to run and i came to the wddm compatabillity
anyhow i returned the drivers to the last working(dec 2012) and everything is back working now running high fps again on my games
thx for the quick reply's and the help

apprieciate it alot
Juriaan,